Episode 33

May 12, 2021

01:13:00

Can you be friends with a racist? With Brendan Hutchins

Can you be friends with a racist? With Brendan Hutchins
Women Bridging the Gap
Can you be friends with a racist? With Brendan Hutchins
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Show Notes

Can you be friends with a racist? What seems like it could be a simple yes or no question has layers and layers of unpacking and questions to be able to give a good answer. There’s context and understanding and compassion and self-preservation and self-care and so much more to consider. The audiosmith for this podcast, Brendan Hutchins, returns to join the conversation about race, religion, and much more with Alexandra and Lenya. The main topic is that Lenya has a colleague at work that voted for Trump in 2020, and is now unsure about how she feels in their relationship, but they have such a good time working together and there haven’t been issues of racism in the workplace. Do you have a similar situation or topic you want to discuss, openly or anonymously, join the [Facebook Group](https://www.facebook.com/groups/665585734389981) or [email us](mailto:[email protected]) and we’ll consider it for a topic on the show. -- Please **rate and review** this podcast if you enjoyed it; reviews greatly help new listeners see this podcast is worth their time. You can find Women Bridging the Gap on [Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/women-bridging-the-gap/id1521503012) and [Podchaser](https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/women-bridging-the-gap-1304390). **We want to hear from you!** Let us know how you’re speaking about these issues with your friends. **Let us know what topics you want to hear!** Join the [Facebook Group](https://www.facebook.com/groups/665585734389981) Email us at [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]) You can find us at: [WomenBridgingtheGap.com](https://womenbridgingthegap.com) Or on Instagram: * Find Lenya at: [@Lenya_goddess_the_one](https://www.instagram.com/lenya_goddess_the_one) * And Alexandra at: [@a_xandra17](https://www.instagram.com/a_xandra17) and [@thewritingleap](https://www.instagram.com/thewritingleap) * And the show is at: [@women_bridging_the_gap](https://www.instagram.com/women_bridging_the_gap/) This podcast was edited by Brendan Hutchins from Podcast Advocate. Go to [PodcastAdvocate.Network](http://PodcastAdvocate.Network) or find him on [Twitter @PodcastAdvocate](https://twitter.com/podcastadvocate) to learn more.

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