Episode 47

December 15, 2021

00:39:57

Having that Race Conversation at Holiday Dinner

Having that Race Conversation at Holiday Dinner
Women Bridging the Gap
Having that Race Conversation at Holiday Dinner
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Show Notes

It’s the final episode of the season and the year! Lenya and Alex have some holiday stories to tell, and they are good ones!

 

Lenya went to her white neighbor’s house for Thanksgiving dinner where the topic of race and police violence came up. Lenya spoke out about policing injustice, and was met with, well, the reaction you probably expect but also can not believe. What’s great though is that this story has a very happy ending.

 

Less happy are two more stories of police interacting with Lenya and Alex at points in their lives, and how the police took things too far, and how their skin color affected how each of them acted and felt.

 

Be sure to stay subscribed for when we return we'll check in on New Year's resolutions, and make some new ones for the coming year. Also, email us if you want to be on the show, or know someone who has a story to tell about race and womanhood.

 

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Email us at [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected])

 

You can find us at: [WomenBridgingtheGap.com](https://womenbridgingthegap.com) 

 

Or on Instagram:

* Find Lenya at: [@Lenya_goddess_the_one](https://www.instagram.com/lenya_goddess_the_one)

* And Alexandra at: [@a_xandra17](https://www.instagram.com/a_xandra17) and [@thewritingleap](https://www.instagram.com/thewritingleap)

* And the show is at: [@women_bridging_the_gap](https://www.instagram.com/women_bridging_the_gap/)

 

This podcast was edited by Brendan Hutchins from Podcast Advocate. Go to [PodcastAdvocate.Network](http://PodcastAdvocate.Network) or find him on [Twitter @PodcastAdvocate](https://twitter.com/podcastadvocate) to learn more.

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