Episode 2

July 22, 2020

00:34:56

Karenism

Karenism
Women Bridging the Gap
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Show Notes

How do Black Women and White Women understand the term Karen and how do we use that understanding to bridge the gap between us? Listen as Lenya and Alexandra discuss their first experiences with Karenism, topics of other nicknames for white women abusing their privilege, and if we should even be using these nicknames or if each one of them should be outed by their name to shame them. Notes: 1. [Check Your Privilege with Myisha T – Become a Co-Conspirator | Chats, Workshops & Join the Lounge](https://checkyourprivilege.co/) 2. [About Caucasity and the Difference Between a Becky, a Karen and a Susan | Awesomely Luvvie](https://www.awesomelyluvvie.com/2020/04/caucasity-karen-becky-susan.html) 3. [Beyonce, Sorry](https://youtu.be/QxsmWxxouIM) 4. [https://chicagodefender.com/charged-with-a-crime-of-karen-ing-the-amy-cooper-inspired-law- backed-by-governor-cuomo/](https://chicagodefender.com/charged-with-a-crime-of-karen-ing-the-amy-cooper-inspired-law- backed-by-governor-cuomo/) 5. [https://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2020/05/coronavirus-karen-memes-reddit- twitter-carolyn-goodman/611104/](https://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2020/05/coronavirus-karen-memes-reddit- twitter-carolyn-goodman/611104/) 6. [https://www.usatoday.com/story/tech/2018/07/18/bbq-becky-permit-patty-and-why-internet- shaming-white-people-who-police-black-people/793574002/](https://www.usatoday.com/story/tech/2018/07/18/bbq-becky-permit-patty-and-why-internet- shaming-white-people-who-police-black-people/793574002/) 7. [https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2019/11/07/kidz-bop-karen-went-viral-on-camera-road- rage-lyft-passenger-she-targeted-calls-tirade-scary/](https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2019/11/07/kidz-bop-karen-went-viral-on-camera-road- rage-lyft-passenger-she-targeted-calls-tirade-scary/) 8. [https://www.insider.com/karen-meme-origin-the-history-of-calling-women-karen-white-2020-5](https://www.insider.com/karen-meme-origin-the-history-of-calling-women-karen-white-2020-5) 9. [https://www.google.com/amp/s/theconversation.com/amp/how-karen-went-from-a-popular- baby-name-to-a-stand-in-for-white-entitlement-139644](https://www.google.com/amp/s/theconversation.com/amp/how-karen-went-from-a-popular- baby-name-to-a-stand-in-for-white-entitlement-139644) Prompts to get us going—in a slight arc: 1. When do you first hear of the term? 2. Do you think the Karenism is entitlement, race or both? 3. Should it be a crime to call the police on Black People being Black? 4. Have you experienced a Karen? Been a Karen? 5. What do you say to Black women named Karen? Is it the name? 6. Do you think it ever gets too mean or pointed to describe a type of person with physical attributes? 7. If someone has been a Karen in the past…what next? -- Please **rate and review** this podcast if you enjoyed it; they greatly helps new listeners see this podcast is worth their time. You can find Women Bridging the Gap on [Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/women-bridging-the-gap/id1521503012) and [Podchaser](https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/women-bridging-the-gap-1304390). **We want to hear from you!** Let us know how you’re speaking about these issues with your friends. **Let us know what topics you want to hear!** Email us at [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]) You can find us at: [WomenBridgingtheGap.com](https://womenbridgingthegap.com) You can find Lenya at: Instagram - [@Lenya_ goddess_ that_bitch](https://www.instagram.com/lenya_goddess_that_bitch) You can find Alexandra at: Instagram - [@a_xandra17](https://www.instagram.com/a_xandra17) and [@thewritingleap](https://www.instagram.com/thewritingleap) This podcast was edited by Brendan Hutchins from Podcast Advocate. Go to [PodcastAdvocate.Network](http://PodcastAdvocate.Network) or find him on [Twitter @PodcastAdvocate](https://twitter.com/podcastadvocate) to learn more.

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