Episode 49

February 23, 2022

00:45:33

White Fragility in Everyday Conversation

White Fragility in Everyday Conversation
Women Bridging the Gap
White Fragility in Everyday Conversation
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Show Notes

Jumping right into it this episode with discussions of white fragility, and how easily and unwillingly it can present itself. Lenya brings in some tales of people whitesplaining on TikTok, and they discuss the fear regarding critical race theory.

 

Alexandra brings up a good point about past life regression for white people, and what racism you’ll find in your past.

 

They just had so much to talk about, that they’re going to have to put off the Super Bowl halftime show until next week! Send us your thoughts on that and everything we discussed on the episode.

 

Here are some of the TikToks lenya mentioned in this episode

 

One of the videos Lenya talked about this episode: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdBbykvx/

 

The other video Lenya talked about, Couldn't find the whole video because the creator deleted his profile: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdBbC4xh/

 

https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdBbBtB6/

 

This is the disability advocate creator Lenya talked about: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdBqKUCJ/

 

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You can find us at: [WomenBridgingtheGap.com](https://womenbridgingthegap.com) 

 

Or on Instagram:

* Find Lenya at: [@Lenya_goddess_the_one](https://www.instagram.com/lenya_goddess_the_one)

* And Alexandra at: [@a_xandra17](https://www.instagram.com/a_xandra17) and [@thewritingleap](https://www.instagram.com/thewritingleap)

* And the show is at: [@women_bridging_the_gap](https://www.instagram.com/women_bridging_the_gap/)

 

This podcast was edited by Brendan Hutchins from Podcast Advocate. Email him at [[email protected]](mailto:[email protected]).

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